How to elope in 2025
Your elopement is more than a ceremony- it's a celebration of your love story, free from the distractions of a big wedding, but still full of meaning and authenticity. Whether your dream is to exchange vows on a mountaintop cliff or standing barefoot on the ocean, this guide will help you plan an unforgettable, adventurous elopement.
Think about the places that make you feel the most alive. maybe it's the forest where you hiked together for the first time or an overlook you've always dreamed of visiting together.
- reflect on your journey together:
the perfect spot is more than just being beautiful, it's personal.
1. Choose a Location that speaks to your story as a couple
- check the details:
Research whether permits are needed for ceremonies or photography, and consider how accessible the location is. The best places are worth the longer adventure, but you will need to plan accordingly. Good news: I can help with this!
2. design a day that's entirely yours
Start your morning hiking to a secluded spot, kayak to a quiet beach, or drive up winding roads to a hidden overlook. your day should feel as adventurous as you.
- make it an adventure
- pick the perfect time
Opt for golden hour sunrise for soft, light, and tranquil moments or sunset for those warm and romantic tones.
your elopement is an experience, not just an event.
3. know the legal side
make sure that everything is official
while still keeping focus on what matters.
Different locations may require permits, an officiant, or witnesses. research the requirements early to avoid surprises.
- understand local laws:
- self-solemnize if able:
In some places, like Colorado, you can marry yourselves- just you, your vows, and the moment.
4. capture the magic
this is a day you'll want to relive forever.
Find someone who is adventurous and knows how to capture the candid, emotional moments. One way that I serve my couples as an elopement photographer is becoming friends with my couples so I can truly capture their love story in a way that is true to them.
- hire an adventure photographer, like myself ;)
- document the journey
From the early-morning prep to the quiet post ceremony moments, every part of your day matters.
5. plan for nature's wild side
an adventurous elopement means embracing the possible rain or shine.
Bring sturdy shoes for the trail and bring layers to stay comfortable, choose attire that is beautiful AND practical for your location.
- wear the right gear
- pack smart
Water, snacks, a first aid kit, and a blanket for the two of you are must-haves. it's all part of the adventure.
6. make it yours
let the ceremony reflect who you are.
Speak from the heart. whether they're sweet, funny, or tear-filled, they will be perfect because they are yours.
- write your own vows
- add meaningful touches
Incorporate rituals, like feet washing or a private moment to exchange letters, that feels authentic and real to you.
7. celebrate in your own way
when the vows are said, the adventure doesn't end- it's just the beginning of your life together.
Pop champagne on the summit, watch the stars, or cozy up around a campfire. Whatever feels like the most perfect end to the best day of your life.
- plan something special after
- share your joy with those you care about
Whether you send announcements, host a small celebration later, or surprise your loved ones with the news, do it your way. My fiancé & I are planning a Colorado mountain elopement, with a celebration with family and friends a week later in Virginia. We just could not imagine not sharing the love with those people that have been so influential in our lives.
elopements: the day that is entirely yours
An adventurous elopement gives you the freedom to focus on what truly matters: your love, your connection, and the memories you will build together. It's about stepping into the place that feels the most like you, holding each other close, and embracing the beauty of starting your lives together forever.
getting to be apart of the biggest day in someone's life is an honor that i do not take lightly. for me, i want to help your elopement run as smoothly as possible, have photos that you can look back on and remember the exact thoughts you were having, and truly make an experience that you will tell your grandchildren about someday.
